GUIDES & RESOURCES

What You Need to Know

We bring together short practical guides, and a carefully curated selection of books on co-parenting, communication, and family wellbeing; chosen for parents navigating separation..

SOS Guides

SOS guides offer practical, easy-to-follow information to help individuals and families navigate separation and related challenges. These trusted resources provide valuable advice and tools to support informed decision-making and positive steps forward during difficult times.

Parenting Through Separation

This is a a practical and accessible co-parenting guide written by a charity based in England, Resolution, that aims to give parents access to information and support to help them on their parenting journey through separation, divorce and beyond.

Parenting Plans

The Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (“Cafcass”) is England that considers the children’s best interests in English family court proceedings. The Cafcass guide to a Parenting Plan is a helpful starting point to explore the arrangements for children, by helping parents put the child first.

Mediation Talk Tips

Starting a mediation conversation with your (ex) partner can feel overwhelming. This guide offers practical, compassionate tips to help you communicate openly, reduce defensiveness, and focus on building a respectful path forward—for yourselves, your children, and the future you’re creating apart yet together.

The Family Reframed Reading List

Books to Navigate Separation

Whether you’re navigating fertility challenges, separation, or co-parenting after divorce, these carefully selected titles come highly recommended by clients and professionals alike. Thoughtful, supportive, and often transformative—there’s something here for everyone on their family journey.

Books Your Children Will Wish You Had Read

Adult Books

The Good Divorce: Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Comes Apart
By Constance Ahrons

Challenges the myth of the “broken” family, offering research-based guidance on
how divorcing couples can preserve healthy family relationships and support their children through respectful, cooperative separation.

Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends
By Bruce Fisher & Robert Alberti

The Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (“Cafcass”) is England that considers the children’s best interests in English family court proceedings. The Cafcass guide to a Parenting Plan is a helpful starting point to explore the arrangements for children, by helping parents put the child first.

Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
By Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen

Practical strategies for navigating high-stakes, emotionally charged discussions with clarity, empathy, and confidence—whether at home or in professional settings.

Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In
By Roger Fisher & William Ury

Principled negotiation—a collaborative, interest-based approach that helps parties reach fair and lasting agreements without unnecessary conflict or compromise.

Two Homes, One Childhood: A Parenting Plan to Last a Lifetime
By Robert E. Emery, PhD

A child-focused approach to co-parenting after separation, guiding parents in creating flexible, long-term parenting plans that prioritise stability, empathy, and emotional security.

The Co-Parenting Handbook: Raising Well-Adjusted and Resilient Kids from Little Ones to Young Adults through Divorce or Separation
By Karen Bonnell & Kristin Little

Practical tools and guidance for separated parents to raise emotionally healthy, resilient children—offering clear strategies for communication, boundaries, and parenting across two homes.

Younger Children

Two Homes
By Claire Masurel

A child-focused approach to co-parenting after separation, guiding parents in creating flexible, long-term parenting plans that prioritise stability, empathy, and emotional security.

Hey Warrior
By Karen Young
Kids can do amazing things with the right information. Understanding why anxiety feels the way it does and where the physical symptoms come from is a powerful step in turning anxiety around. Anxiety explained, kids empowered.
It's Not Your Fault, Koko Bear
By Vicki Lansky
A Read-Together Book for Parents and Young Children During Divorce
Dinosaurs Divorce
By Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown

A guide for changing families

Teenagers

The Divorce Helpbook for Teens
By Cynthia MacGregor
MacGregor knows that divorce can be especially tough on teens, and her warm and friendly guide offers a helping hand to teens struggling to answer the tough questions when their parents divorce.
Now What Do I Do?
By Lynn Cassella

 Guide To Help Teenagers with their Parents' Separation or Divorce

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