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This is the personal side of Family Reframed — where law meets lived experience. Expect reflections that focus on the atypical family lives that reframe how we perceive, talk and support families.
Reframed
Parenting Reflections
From cross-cultural parenting reflections to the latest research on managing marital finances, growing your family, children, separation, rebuilding and co-parenting.
It won’t always be perfect, but it will always be thoughtful, compassionate, and real.
The Psychology Behind Mediation
Introduction – The Case for a Therapeutic Lens in Expat Mediation
In the past few decades, family mediation has taken center sta...
Calling Lawyers: Why Don’t Your Clients Give Private Family Mediation a Try?
It was a real pleasure to connect with so many practitioners at the Bar Council Delegation Family Law in Transition – Disputes Across B...
Starting With Why.
Eleven years ago, my world shifted forever.
The day before I was called to the Bar, a moment I had worked so long and hard for, ...
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What our Clint Says
Shabana stands out as an exceptional lawyer, combining deep technical knowledge in prenuptial agreements and wealth structuring with genuine empathy and sound commercial judgment.
~MFS
Mr M — Spanish Client
I would like to sincerely thank Shabana for her immense support and professionalism throughout the entire process of preparing my prenuptial agreement. It was not an easy time for me, as I was simultaneously preparing to move to the UAE and get married - a period that was both challenging and filled with uncertainty. Shabana took the time to listen carefully, explain every detail, and guide me through the legal implications of the process, particularly how UAE law applies to me as a British citizen and expatriate. She handled everything with confidence, calmness, efficiency, even when working under significant time pressure. I am extremely grateful for the care and diligence Shabana demonstrated in ensuring my rights and interests as a foreign woman entering marriage in the UAE were fully protected. Her professionalism, emра-thy, and passion for her work really set her apart.
~Client
Ms F — Canadian Client
Shabana gave me exceptional support and guidance through one of the most difficult periods of my life. During a grueling 8-hour mediation, she remained calm, professional, and incredibly focused. What truly sets her apart is her integrity—she always advised me on what was right for me and my children, even when it wasn’t in the best interest of her firm. That honesty and courage showed me she genuinely cared. Because of her expertise, persistence, and strategic approach, I achieved the outcome I desperately hoped for: 100% custody of my kids. - FC
Ms F — Canadian Client
I am deeply grateful and would recommend Shabana without hesitation to anyone looking for a lawyer who is not only highly skilled, but also truly committed to her clients and their families. - Former Client
Mr J — Indian Client
I visited Shabana for a consultation, I must say how comfortable she made me feel, as it was an emotional time. In this brief consultation, she gave me enough to think about. I will definitely continue using Shabana. - Former Client
Ms D — Pakistani Client
Shabana supported me through a high-stakes divorce process, where the future of my company was at risk depending on the outcome. Throughout, she demonstrated professionalism, empathy, and a focus on constructive and practical solutions. - Director
Mr S — Portuguese Client
Shabana has been my go-to person for handling international private client and family law work with the UAE cross-over for years. She genuinely cares about her clients. - Advocate in South Asia
Advocate Based in Pakistan
Shabana's attention to detail and incredible determination definitely set her apart from anyone else I have come across and most definetlye someone you need when going through a tough time. - South Asian Client
American Client (Based in KSA)
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